Dear Therapist, Have you Considered Coaching

Erica Kesse

Dear Therapist, Have you Considered Coaching

Dear Therapist, Have you considered Coaching?


Here are 5 signs to consider being a coach if you are a mental health counselor:


  1. You are passionate about helping others. If you find yourself wanting to help others reach their full potential, then coaching may be the right career for you. Coaches help people set goals, develop strategies to achieve those goals, and overcome obstacles.
  2. You are a good listener. Coaching is all about listening to others and helping them to find their own answers. If you are a good listener and can help others to feel heard, then coaching may be a good fit for you.
  3. You are a good communicator. Coaching is about communicating effectively with others. If you are able to communicate clearly and concisely, then coaching may be a good fit for you.
  4. You are a good problem solver. Coaching is about helping others to solve problems. If you are able to think critically and come up with creative solutions, then coaching may be a good fit for you.
  5. You are a good motivator. Coaching is about motivating others to take action. If you are able to inspire and encourage others, then coaching may be a good fit for you.



If you are interested in becoming a coach, there are a few things you can do to prepare. First, you should get certified as a coach. There are many different certification programs available, so you can find one that fits your needs. Consider the Corporate Xcape Coaching Certification program founded by a fellow therapist because leaning into coaching created the life of her dream. Second, you should develop your coaching skills. There are many books and online resources that can help you develop your coaching skills. Finally, you should build your network. Feel free to connect with me to learn of coaching groups and resources that I would love to share. Attend coaching conferences and workshops, and connect with other coaches online.


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